chore: update vscode (#4680)

* Update VS Code

Fixes https://github.com/coder/code-server/issues/4598
Fixes https://github.com/coder/code-server/issues/4620
Fixes https://github.com/coder/code-server/issues/4600

* Add locale flag back

This is valid again now that we have restored display language support.

src/node/cli.ts

@@ -57,6 +57,7 @@ export interface UserProvidedArgs {
   enable?: string[]
   help?: boolean
   host?: string
+  locale?: string
   port?: number
   json?: boolean
   log?: LogLevel
@@ -163,6 +164,7 @@ const options: Options<Required<UserProvidedArgs>> = {
   enable: { type: "string[]" },
   help: { type: "boolean", short: "h", description: "Show this output." },
   json: { type: "boolean" },
+  locale: { type: "string" }, // The preferred way to set the locale is via the UI.
   open: { type: "boolean", description: "Open in browser on startup. Does not work remotely." },
 
   "bind-addr": {