fix(npm): use correct flags and update version for npm (#5533)

* fix: update npm-postinstall.sh script

Add --legacy-peer-deps to deal with weird npm issue with vscode
dependencies.

See: https://stackoverflow.com/a/66620869/3015595

* fix: use npm in release-standalone

* chore: update package.json

* chore: bump plugin engine for tests

ci/build/build-standalone-release.sh

@@ -28,7 +28,7 @@ main() {
   ln -s "./lib/node" "$RELEASE_PATH/node"
 
   pushd "$RELEASE_PATH"
-  yarn --production --frozen-lockfile
+  npm install --unsafe-perm --omit=dev
   popd
 }